Showing posts with label LOA. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LOA. Show all posts

Sunday, 31 August 2025

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

 

And here's a photo I took at Brighton Marina when I went to Five Guys: 

A rainbow coming out after the rain. :)

 

 

 

 

Monday, 28 July 2025

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

 

Also, I thought I'd post a picture of my painted nails, for a change! The colour is called lilac but I thought it wasn't quite that, lol.

 

Taken last month.

 

Saturday, 31 May 2025

Gratitude List

I normally post on Sundays or Mondays but forgot to write my monthly Gratitude List last week, so I'm posting today instead! :)

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

 

*I was feeling really down and wanted to do something to feel better. After reading an email newsletter from Diana of The Chic Life about making a Joy List and doing what brings you joy, I decided I'd like to go to the park around sunset. :) Here's a picture I took:

Sunset in Hove Park.

 

 

 

 

Sunday, 11 May 2025

Does Manifesting Really Work?

 

I've written several posts about the Law of Attraction (LOA)/manifesting. Also, the Law of Assumption (a theory developed/popularised by Barbadian writer, speaker and mystic Neville Goddard) more recently. After year of trying out techniques related to LOA and working on changing my mindset etc., but still not seeing many results, I started wondering if it really works. So I'm going to explore that further today.

Disclaimer: I'm not a doctor, so if you're having mental/physical issues please seek medical help in addition to reading this. :)

 

Here are some of my previous LOA/manifesting posts:

Law of Attraction (basic intro): https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2013/08/law-of-attraction.html

LOA Round-up: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2019/04/loa-round-up.html

LOA 2.0: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2020/08/law-of-attraction-loa-20.html

Law of Assumption- An Alternative Way of Manifesting: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2022/05/law-of-assumption-alternative-way-of.html


In my Law of Assumption post, I concluded that it does work and there is "something" (some force) that enables you to manifest. But it's more like a "co-creation". I don't believe that you can control everything because there are other factors (which could be seen as a limiting belief but that's how I see it right now!). Unfortunately, not everyone is in an equal position in the world and things like discrimination, life circumstances etc. can affect things when it comes to manifesting

Like many people, one of my first introductions to LOA/manifesting was through the book The Secret (based on the film of the same name) by Rhonda Byrne. I believe now that it oversimplifies the concept. Rhonda has also been criticised for encouraging things like ignoring overweight people if you don't want to put on weight! And some think following what it says can make you worse off than you were before.

Kimberly Wenya has a good post about manifesting in general and The Secret "craze": https://kimberleywenya.substack.com/p/manifestation-hate-it-or-love-it

I think what inspires many is the idea that we can make things better for ourselves, "create our lives". Lots of people want to improve their lives, hence the popularity of the self-help/personal development industry in the past 40 years or so.

Monday, 28 April 2025

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • First full month of spring
  • More blossom trees
  • Getting new hoop earrings- I lost one of my old ones and it's taken a while to find new ones I like!
  • Easter
  • Lots of sunshine lately!
  • The days continuing to get longer and the lighter atmosphere at this time of year 
  • 30 Day Joy Challenge- I'm participating in it again this year.
  • This relaxing video by Jon Lucas

Monday, 31 March 2025

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Getting new fleeces
  • Oestara/the Spring Equinox and spring "officially" starting
  • Going to the park a couple of times 
  • Blossom trees
  • Sunny, warmer days
  • Relaxing cleaning videos
  • Early Easter chocolate (Easter isn't till late April this year)!
  • The days getting longer

 

And here is a photo of a blossom tree that I took in the park last week: 

Blossom trees in Hove Park.

 

Monday, 24 February 2025

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Imbolg/Imbolc
  • Going to the park again after a while
  • Mocha coffees from the machine at the Co-op
  • New gloves- I got them last month but forgot to mention them! 
  • Going to Popeyes-  I'd had milkshakes from there before but hadn't tried their food.
  • Baking- I recenly made some chocolate protein muffins (from a mix)
  • The days gradually getting longer
  • The Manifestation Diaries by Kimberly Wenya- currently reading it

Tuesday, 28 January 2025

Gratitude List

Here is my first Gratitude List of 2025! I meant to post it yesterday but forgot. Never mind, lol.

Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Books
  • Getting a new bed
  • Winter sunshine
  • Trying the new Spanish iced latte at Costa Coffee
  • Easter chocolate already in the shops! 
  • Sunsets after dreary days without proper ones
  • Finding recipe inspiration- such as on A Healthy Slice of Life
  • Finding inspiration online in general
     


Tuesday, 31 December 2024

Letting Go of 2024


It's the end of the year, so it's time for my annual letting go post! I've written them for the past 7 years and you can see my previous posts at the links below: 

Letting Go of 2017: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2017/12/letting-go-of-2017.html

Letting Go of 2018: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2018/12/letting-go-of-2018.html

Letting Go of 2019 + Starting a New Decade: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2019/12/letting-go-of-2019-starting-new-decade.html

Letting Go of 2020: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2020/12/letting-go-of-2020.html

Letting Go of 2021: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2021/12/letting-go-of-2021.html

Letting Go of 2022: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2023/01/letting-go-of-2022.html

Letting Go of 2023: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2023/12/letting-go-of-2023.html


The beginning of 2024 wasn't so great for me because I was going through an anxious time and struggling with health anxiety. I started to feel a bit better but the second half of the year went downhill for me due to other issues (and anxiety on and off). I also write a mid-year reflections post and you can see 2024's here: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2024/06/mid-2024-reflections.html

If you follow numerology, the Universal Year Number for 2024 was 8, so 2025's is 9. 2024 was supposed to be an "accelerator" year which helped people push forward on their goals. (I wrote a bit about it in last year's Letting Go post.) I didn't really feel that it was that way for me though.

Monday, 30 December 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Christmas trees and lights
  • Yule/the Winter Solstice
  • Christmas chocolates!
  • Christmas presents
  • Hot chocolate
  • Going to my first meetup with a social anxiety friendship group
  • Restaurants being open later in Brighton!
  • Buying new music

Monday, 25 November 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

Monday, 28 October 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

Monday, 30 September 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

Monday, 26 August 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Lammas
  • Going to the park (I went for Lammas)
  • Going to Burger King
  • Going to Five Guys
  • Last full month of summer
  • Late summer light
  • Wearing flip flops again now that the weather's finally got better!
  • Listening to older music that I hadn't heard for a while

Tuesday, 30 July 2024

Gratitude List

Posting on a Tuesday again but never mind! :)

Things I'm grateful for this month:

Sunday, 30 June 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month: 

  • Meeting up with my belly dance friends again
  • Litha/the Summer Solstice
  • Going to Hove Park for Litha
  • Going to Burger King
  • Winning £5 twice with McDonald's Surprize fries! 
  • Iced coffees
  • Hotter, sunnier weather
  • The long days at this time of year

Tuesday, 28 May 2024

Gratitude List

I normally post on Sundays or Mondays but since I wrote another post yesterday, I'm posting May's Gratitude List today instead. :)

Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Beltane
  • Going to the beach (I went around Beltane)
  • Happy Café (Action for Happiness meetup)
  • Getting a milkshake from Slim Chickens
  • Going to the library and getting new books- I hadn't been for quite a while!
  • More sunny days- although it's gone colder at the moment, it's been sunnier this month.
  • Roses
  • Finding people you resonate with

Monday, 29 April 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • First full month of spring 
  • Blossom trees
  • Getting a mattress topper
  • Finding meal ideas from Mix and Match Mama  
  • Finding inspiration on YouTube
  • Listening to music
  • Hot chocolate- some days and nights have still been quite cold
  • Taking part of Amina Makhdoom's 30 Day Joy Challenge again- I didn't do it last year and I'm glad I participated in 2024.
     


Saturday, 30 March 2024

Gratitude List

I normally do these posts on Sundays or Mondays, but since tomorrow is Easter Sunday, I'm posting today instead. Last month's Gratitude List was on a Tuesday as well but I plan to get back to the regular posting schedule next month! :)

  Things I'm grateful for this month: 

  • Birthday presents and wishes :)
  • Meeting up with my belly dance friends
  • Oestara/the Spring Equinox and days continuing to get longer as spring starts
  • Getting a drink from Popeyes- my first time going there
  • Sunsets after dull days
  • Kinder Mini Eggs and Cadbury chocolate milk eggs!
  • Finding new meal ideas
  • Easter

 

I also thought I'd share a photo I took on Oestara/the Spring Equinox:

Sunset on Mill Hill, Shoreham-by-sea.

 


Tuesday, 27 February 2024

Gratitude List

I normally write these posts on the last Sunday or Monday of the month, but yesterday I did another post. So I'm writing this month's Gratitude List today instead. :) 

 

Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Imbolg/Imbolc
  • Daffodils and other signs of spring
  • The days getting longer
  • Sunny days after lots of rain! 
  • Going to Starbucks
  • Listening to new music
  • Getting a McDonald's caramel frappe again (they hadn't been available for a while)!
  • Books