Monday 30 September 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

Monday 26 August 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Lammas
  • Going to the park (I went for Lammas)
  • Going to Burger King
  • Going to Five Guys
  • Last full month of summer
  • Late summer light
  • Wearing flip flops again now that the weather's finally got better!
  • Listening to older music that I hadn't heard for a while

Tuesday 30 July 2024

Gratitude List

 Posting on a Tuesday again but never mind! :)

Things I'm grateful for this month:

Sunday 30 June 2024

Gratitude List

 Things I'm grateful for this month: 

  • Meeting up with my belly dance friends again
  • Litha/the Summer Solstice
  • Going to Hove Park for Litha
  • Going to Burger King
  • Winning £5 twice with McDonald's Surprize fries! 
  • Iced coffees
  • Hotter, sunnier weather
  • The long days at this time of year

Sunday 23 June 2024

Mid-2024 Reflections


We're halfway through the year again, so it's time for my annual mid-year reflections post! I've been writing these since 2018 (6 years now), although my first one was in May, so not quite during the middle of the year. You can see my previous posts at the links below:

Reflections (2017): https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2017/05/reflections.html

Mid-2018-Reflecions: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2018/06/mid-2018-reflections.html

Mid-2019 Reflections: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2019/06/mid-2019-reflections.html

Mid-2020 Reflections: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2020/06/mid-2020-reflections.html

Mid-2021 Reflections: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2021/06/mid-2021-reflections.html

Mid-2022 Reflections: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2022/06/mid-2022-reflections.html

Mid-2023 Reflections: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2023/06/mid-2023-reflections.html

 

I also write an end of year post. You can see 2023's here: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2023/12/letting-go-of-2023.html


The first half of 2024 has been ok but not really great. I did feel better than last year though. I had an anxious start to the year and struggled with health anxiety. I've also felt really down at times.

I mainly just went to Happy Café meetups (organised by Action for Happiness) and for park walks. I've got out of the routine of going to the park again lately though, due to various circumstances. I did go the other day though, as part of my celebrations for Litha/the Summer Solstice. I haven't been belly dancing lately but I met up with my dance friends at a pub a couple of times, which was nice.

Tuesday 28 May 2024

Gratitude List

I normally post on Sundays or Mondays but since I wrote another post yesterday, I'm posting May's Gratitude List today instead. :)

Things I'm grateful for this month:

  • Beltane
  • Going to the beach (I went around Beltane)
  • Happy Café (Action for Happiness meetup)
  • Getting a milkshake from Slim Chickens
  • Going to the library and getting new books- I hadn't been for quite a while!
  • More sunny days- although it's gone colder at the moment, it's been sunnier this month.
  • Roses
  • Finding people you resonate with

Monday 27 May 2024

Feeling Powerless


For the past few years I've written a series of posts called Feeling Your Emotions, which explores different emotions and how we can work with them to feel better. You can see all the posts to date at the link below (or under the label "Feeling Your Emotions" when viewing the post):

Feeling Your Emotions Recap: https://fallingpetalsuk.blogspot.com/2022/09/feeling-your-emotions-recap.html

 

I've also written several "stand-alone" posts looking at other feeling states, such as feeling like a "loser", feeling lonely etc. I decided to have them as separate posts because they weren't core/basic emotions. I also recently wrote a post about feeling stuck.

For this post I thought I would take a look at feeling powerless and what we can do to move past that state, and feel better.

Disclaimer: I'm not a doctor, so if you're having mental/physical issues please seek medical help in addition to reading this. :)

 

What does it mean to feel powerless?

The definition of powerless (or powerlessness) includes "without power or authority" (Collins Dictionary), "the condition or feeling of having no power (Cambridge Dictionary) or "devoid of strength or resources" and "lacking the authority or capacity to act" (Merriam Webster).